Kells Rejects A Full Scholarship To The University Of Faggotry
City leaders here in Chicago plan to open an all gay, lesbian, and transgender high school in 2010. Studies show gay and transgender students are more likely to drop out of high school because of bullying, and taunting from classmates. School Chief Arny Duncan said classes would include the study of sexual identity within literature and history. The question is, will this because a national trend? New York is among one of the 1st cities to create a similar high school. As to no surprise a school with these standards are without a doubt expected to be controversial.
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Less than a month away from the Presidential election and I can't seem to stop dreaming about Sarah Palin.
...Speaking of political figures. Can someone tell me what the hell Colin Powell was doing performing with hip hop artist Olu Maintain at an African festival? Sure he's entitled to have his fun, but he looks like a damn porch monkey with all that buffoonery. Maybe he's just excited Barack Obama is running for president. After all if Obama is elected president, maybe congress will have another black man to blame for our country's problems. Remember Colin Powell was the leading figure that persuaded Bush to invade Iraq in search of weapons of mass destruction. Wow....can we say "epic failure." Talk about a screw job, poor Colin Powell helped make one of our nation's biggest mistakes in modern history. It's good to see he's in light spirits about it.
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Recently I came across a blog post of a young lady from Chicago in distress about her current marital affairs. I really enjoyed her post and how she pointed out the double standards men and women share. It's rare that a woman of her age can grasp the concept of happiness as it pertains to men and not only understand it but accept it. If I didn't know any better I'd swear she had a long talk with me and picked my brain for a while. What do you think?
I've been very busy these last couple of days. Outside of some personal stuff I've been taking care of, I've been in the process of redesigning a layout. I like the current layout, but I want to try something a tad bit new. I'm trying to get rid of "Blogger" all together and create an innovative system that will allow users to create member profiles strictly through KellsFetish.com, also including member themes that adjust to every one's personal fit. Something more appealing, yet professional. Most of these ideas are in the beginning stages and I'm testing new things out, so be patient. Look out for the new layout with-in 6-8 weeks. Possibly sooner.
Final Thought: Everyone has their own personal beliefs, however if you're still openly homophobic in 2008 considered yourself a moron
I'm aware faggotry isn't a word. However it's a term I use loosely, and shouldn't be considered disrespectful to the homosexual and Claymates (Clay Aiken fans) community.
posted by Steve Kells at
9:56 PM
31 Comments:
glad to see colin powell making a spectacle of himself in the sunset of his career.
this gay, lesbian, and transgendered school sounds like a good idea in THEORY, but I have a feeling that it'll be disastrous once in practice... kind of like communism.
has anyone seen the movie 'but i'ms a cheerleader'? i can just see misguided parents sending their kids to this school because they think the kid is gay.
i know that it'll probably be a utopia for tormented students, but there is soooo much potential for something to go wrong. Protesters, far-right bigots, picketers, religious fundamentalists, child-predators... for all of these innocent kids to be in one place is probably someone's dream. It's like in superhero movies when they have all the world's leaders gathered together - there's always a SUPERVILLAIN lurking.
I don't want to sully the project with my doubts though. I honestly hope it works out.
I don't know what the city is thinking as far as the Gay school. I remember reading about it in the paper some time in the first quarter of this year. They should keep it co-ed and have certain clubs for the Gay people like "Pride". Whitney Young back in the late '90's for sure had a Gay club called Pride. I'm not for sure if they still have it but it was going on.
Good lookin' on the Sarah Palin pics, even though I don't think the one I'm speaking of is her.
I must say i agree that would not end the targeting of these poor kids. I just think people should stop trying to impose their beliefs on others.
Colin Powell......NEXT!!!
Sarah Palins website.......Classic LOL
I saw that movie also Becca and I could see such a thing happening.
That blogger was very true. I think when SOME men say something like: Women should have more respect for them selves shows the idiocracy that plagues SOME men. It shows that SOME men have no respect for themsleves and ladies neither should we (have respect for them). I'm all for dating like a guy (minus the various sex partners because that is just unsanitary). It makes for better decisions. I think SOME men get away with those slutations actions because SOME women can be in denial and think this is as good as it gets and for them maybe because they have boxed themselves in.
Notice I say "SOME" because no all men are not the same....(and no i am not being my usual sarcastic self. I don't think all men are dogs, the others are just gay LOL I couldn't resist).
In response to the blog about “open relationships”:
It’s so funny to me because some guys (NOT ALL*) but they want a women whose going to be loyal to have their back through whatever and everything else that follows. But on the flip side is some men still want to do them (I KNOW how SELFISH RIGHT?)
However, I think that has to do with a guys not being fully mature, not ready to commit and women accepting whatever men throw at them.
Honestly, their Good men out there but what women have to do is set high Expectations, Standards and Don’t SETTLE. Be in touch with yourself, know what it is that you want and rest shall follow. (Trust I know):)
That picture of the Sarah Palin look alike that is actually a pornstar named Lisa Ann (I know her very well) shes starring in a flick called "Nailin Palin" soon to be released, my good friend is the producer stand by you may see some photos of me and MS.Lisa Ann at the release of the Flick.LMAO!!!& FMAO!!!
Shout out to all the GAY's in the city of chicago. In chicago the GAY'S have a special section called boys town, and damn it all the property over on that side is priced at 550,000 and up WTF!!!! I went to an open house for a loft on that side of town, and that shit was priced at 935,000(Im trying to diversify my portfolio NO HOMO!!) so keep on Faggin Faggots!!!
Shout out to Colin Powell he has always been a down brother but that "GENERAL" title had him all fucked up thinkin he was white and shit. We welcome you back BIG C!!
FINAL THOUGHT: ANdressa Soares is a bad ass chick "You could have whateva you like"
I never really cared for Colin Powell that much in the past but I was watching "TODAY" this morning (weekday mornings @ 7am, ch. 5) and he is supporting Obama. Obama and McCain was looking for his support.
I think that the treatment that is received from both genders is all about how much the other individual accept and allow them to do. Every man I believe, go through the 1 major break up that they had put so much in to. After that it's a wrap. It's like, once a good girl goes bad...she's gone forever. We all have to remember that LOYALTY is hard to come by. Older women do have more credibility as far as loyalty but they are also more vulnerable to accept a man cheating. People have to set standards and know what they want out of an indivdual. Woman cheat all the time and claim "One man can't fulfill my needs"-that is a blatant directly hoarish statement.
Angelo I do agree with somethings that you said however I don't think that is a whorish statement because I believe it was meant to be understood on a mental level. Most guys only think on a physical level. One man is not enough because the total package is hard to find and they may feel that the perfect guy is really a few guys combined. One guy has great convo, the other is adventurous, the other is cultured, and the other is attentive, and out of all those guys only one is there to fuck (excuse the vulgarity). So whorish no. Busy maybe.
Loyal is a two way street and
it can never be mended after it has been broken. Only a fool would stay loyal or with a person that has blatantly disrespected them. But some can try, and sadly some do.
“Women should have more self-respect than to be going out with a bunch of men on dates anyway…even if they aien’t f**king.”
If thats not the realest shit I ever read. Women keep lowering our stock value n shit. Going out with any brotha who'll holla. Cute Brotha+Job = Date. These broads these days need to open they minds up. Then they try to justify they tacky ways (talking/datin multiple brothas) wit the whole double standard rule....no bitch, step ya game up and motivate ya self. WHY BUY THE COW WHEN THE MILK IS FREE!?! Im out.
UUUMM I think you are confused Peaches. If you stick to/ stalk the first guy you meet you will be a 40 year old divorcee with no mind of their own and their prime out the window. Our stock is down because of women settling and accepting BS. Maybe if girls ( because a woman knows better) had some self-esteem and value then they wouldn't chase these guy the way these guys should chase us!! I think woman who think like you are tragic. Stepping yo game up is why you should be disgusted by that sexist shit. So you feel women should wait around for when a guy is ready to settle down? Like a dumb ass doormat? I hope not! No they should wait around for us and we should be making them upgrade themselves!! Once upon a time we were the prize and men did things to impress US. Now females ride or dying they ass right to jail or the grave for some dick?? Yall need some real father figures and not these older men trying to brainwash yall in to being they mamas, and the shit is working!!
girl plz. ROFL, i stopped paying attention to you after i read:
***One man is not enough because the total package is hard to find and they may feel that the perfect guy is really a few guys combined.***
LOL, Ima take the highroad on this 1. & not that it matters but Ive been married for 2 years come December '08 hun.
So your married which means your the guru? Not even close. And if you really believe the BS you talk you will def be a statistic come the third year LOL. And when you quote me HUN please read the whole thread because you know I was simply explaining the mind set of someone that would feel that way in regards to Angelo's comment. Peaches this is a debate. Which means speak how you feel or have you run into a wall. I mean i don't know you from a can of paint so I don't know your situation at home, but from experience alot of people like to make their personal life a bit more sparkly than it really is. Having a man isn't a goal in life. Its about companionship. Not " I have a man, yes he is fuckin a million bitches, but aleast i have a man. Next your going to agree that woman should be at home bare foot and pregnant.....if thats what her man wants. WOW
Question: Should you stay with a man that blatantly cheats on you for the sake of loyalty? Should you accept less respect and love? Should you give a guy 100% and only recieve 60% back? Answer those please and help me understand where your coming from?
Becca - Your comparison of the gay and transgendered school to communism is hilarious. To be honest I'm not sure how things will work out, but I know it'll be interesting. I would love to be a fly on the wall at the 1st day of the school's opening No Homo. I know how outlandish the gay community is here in Chicago, so I can't imagine the type of faggotry that'll be perpetuated on the 1st day of school. All those guys fighting for the crown of # 1 princess is gonna get a good laugh out of the staff I'm sure.
Angelo - Not sure if you knew, but the "Pride" club isn't synonymous with just Whitney Young. My high school, as well as several dozen other high schools always had gay and transgendered clubs. It was your high school's idea to remain homophobic. That's why so many of those girls came out the closet after graduation, because your high school didn't tolerate that type of faggotry. LOL!
Sandy P - I don't know where to start....LMAO.... seriously, I find so much wrong with what you said in the last half dozen comments that I haven't gathered enough time to respond. The comment that strikes me the most is...
I'm all for dating like a guy...It makes for better decisions. –Sandy P
LOL! Instead of picking everything you've said apart I'm going to flat out say I don't condone promiscuity on any level when it comes to a woman. Double standard, triple standard, or whatever you want to call it - I like my women old fashion. I'm aware there's a new generation that thinks otherwise. Those women prefer more masculine tendencies such as doing the equivalent to whatever a man does. However I'm not too fond of that activity.. Reality shows women have a lot more to lose in these type of situations such as; pregnancy, emotional recourse, tarnished reputation, and even becoming more subjective to contracting HIV (medically it's easier for a woman to contract an STD than a male), etc.
...But if it works for you, and whoever else, then have fun. To each it's own.
I'm not really looking for a response because I'm not debating. But knowing your history you'll respond with yet another lengthy novel justifying promiscuity among women. I love your contributions, it's your bullylike, my way or no way, untested challenging antics that sometimes bother me.
BrittaniMarie - You sound very passionate...
"Honestly, their Good men out there but what women have to do is set high Expectations, Standards and Don’t SETTLE. Be in touch with yourself, know what it is that you want and rest shall follow." -BrittaniMarie
There's a lot of trial & error that goes along with that.
Matt - Who would think one of the hottest spots to get a bite to eat in Chicago after 2AM is located in BoysTown. LOL, talk about irony.
As far Andres Sorres (body of a Goddess), I remember I had something real similar to her a few years back. It was hard giving her up. You remember the Spanish food she use to prepare for you. Had you eating Tortillas, while talking to her father (who spoke no English) about beer. LMAO! Mattao you a fool.
Peaches - You definitely don't give off that woman scorn type of vibe. I love that quote: why buy “the cow when the milk is free.” I honestly don't think some women realize the blatant symbolic meaning that statement has in terms of them in today's society. I was explaining to my friend the other day there's too much responsibility that comes with a relationship - so most guys these days give JUST ENOUGH to make their "fling" happy. (see Matthew Cobbins Chapter; ENTIRE LIFE). In contrast most guys realize this problem - so they don't seek relationships. Why seek a relationship when you have women out here ok with sleeping around for 2 dinner dates & a movie? I'm not speaking for me per say, but I'm just echoing the voice of young men. Like Angelo previously stated, the older the woman the more vulnerable she becomes. Think about it; in high school you had to work the hardest to get close with a girl. By the early 20s you realize it only takes a certain level of communication (daily txts, phone calls), dinner dates, and deceptive bullshit just to get her in your bed. By her 30s she's so far gone from reality it's not even funny.
I see LikeBrandy already welcomed you, so I'll just second her gesture and do the same. As you can see the LiT (Lost in Transition) family isn’t your typical family. We have our issues, some more than others – but it’s all love.
Of course i will. I honestly think Mr. Kells likes everyone to agree with him. I love to prove people wrong. Promiscuity and dating are two very different things. If you have sex with every person you date yes you’re a whore. A date is and activity and no sex (in its purest essence). How does going to a movie than dinner than HOME ALONE make a WOMAN promiscuous? When quoting ME please quote me correctly "I'm all for dating like a guy (minus the various sex partners because that is just unsanitary). It makes for better decisions."
I love when people use partial quotes to better their point!!
Kudos on that.
From a dictionary.
Date: a social appointment, engagement, or occasion arranged beforehand with another person.
Promiscuous: having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.
Because obviously we are confused on the meanings of certain words.
Ignorance is bliss.....
Steven Ive been scorn before. I know all about giving up hope on finding a good man. But I guess I got lucky. As far your whole thing with older women its sad but true. I got single friends that still hit the clubs in their late 20s & early 30s looking for a come up but what can ya say. yeah they make mistakes over & over, but what are they suppose to do? stay in the house and be miserable?
Okay its time for me to break my silence on this shit here. I want to be 100 percent with all the ladies and say that alot of us men get the way we are after being hurt by a female.....yeah that's right "HURT"....emotional assault.....love jones gone bad..etc. Look all this dating shit aint worth a damn all a brother really wants is a woman that's as down for me as I am for her, but instead I find myself out here on the hunt, and its allright but I just want my friend back. In most cases thats how us guys feel we want commitment but the fear of being hurt again keeps us on our toes. Look its a cold..cold..cold world out here on this dating scene...and its even colder for women, because honestly I can tell you its alot of dirt bag men out here that really be handing out STD's, and BABY's like that shit is in style. Look if you got someone thats worth while cherish that relationship, and build on what you have.
P.S. A relationship really is a Full-Time job in itself if you are dedicated and attentive you can make a "career" out of it.
I give you a standing ovation Matt!! I really love when guys can be open and honest. I hope you find a woman that can give you that same 100%. And yes if you find someone worthy by all means loyalty is a must.
"que viven con el orgullo que puede obstaculizar, pero que viven con pesar le puede hacer daño a usted." - mi mamá
not to down anyone here but kells you wouldnt/havent had these problems wit puerto rican women. our culture teaches us to remain loyal and the rest will fall in place. if you cant handle the tough times you dont deserve to reap the benefits. ive been wit my man for 5 years and he's done some fucked up shit. But i wouldnt dare leave him. for what??? so some other block head boy can do the same shyt?? or even worst some other chick get the best of him and everything i worked for??? plze im sassy but not stupid.
peaches our stock value isnt low, speak for yourself lil mama.
WAT HAS HE DUN THATS FUCKED UP?
Ya'll got the game all twisted.
Loyalty and respect are kin. If a man can't be loyal, he doesn't respect you. Same goes for a woman. And if you're not respected then you're being fucked.
It's too easy to say "oh yeah, my man does dirt, but I'll ride with him". It's called security. In order to have a man, you'd deal with whatever to keep him.
I refuse. If you can't be loyal (and in turn be mindful of the way I'd feel if you were disloyal) then you don't respect me. And if you don't respect me, then you don't mean shit to me. We can't build a home, a family, a FUTURE, if you don't respect me. PERIOD.
The benefits I want to reap are personal happiness, a secure home, an undivorced family, and peace. Not some joint where my husband creeps in smellin like coochie and leaves for his 20%.
Cutie S THANK YOU......YOU ARE RIGHT ON TIME!! FINALLY A WOMAN THAT UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP!! THAT WAS BEAUTIFULLY SAID MIGHT I ADD.
To be honest this really saddens me.
So to be loyal means you have to except bullsit, being disrespected, manipulated, go through silly stuff every time you look up, and the #1 CHEATING???????
But wait it gets better: Because if you leave him, someone else is going to reap the benefits… Lmao
I think that’s the silliest thing I’ve ever heard, in my life. But what benefits? There are no Positive benefits if his still doing the same thing….
This was the toper “It's sad, but as a whole black women aren't as loyal as Puerto Rican women. I've been with my man for a couple years & right before he found me he was actually about to give up on black women.”
A woman is a woman no matter what culture she is ethnicity so forth. People get so caught up on so many stereotypes its ridiculous. It’s not a black women’s issue it’s an issue that some women have with accepting anything from men. Call me old fashion but whatever happen to being each other’s help mate, being committed, having happiness, both partners being loyal, and security??????? GOSH
***Cutie S: you couldn’t have said it any better! I stand behind everything you said!
i'm getting the idea that these are a lot of bitter, scorned females because of the PASSION in these replies. I fail to find a sentence...phrase...or even the slightest implication that Kells thinks it's THE RIGHT THING or.."OKAY" for men to do "xyz and still come back to me", or even that he thinks it's a females role to stand by regardless of what her man does...it seems like y'all are venting due to some PERSONAL ISSUES. It's a fact that the "ideal" male and female roles in society aren't what most people would agree with, BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS. If you don't like it, CHANGE IT. If you don't want to be that Woman, then don't DATE THAT MAN. Don't try to change a nigga though, and DEFINITELY don't try to convince him that his mentality is fckd. It will end as an epic fail, with you guys on yet another persons comment board, MAD AS HELL. FOR WHAT? JUST BREATHE.
Matt alot of us men get the way we are after being hurt by a female.....yeah that's right "HURT"....emotional assault.....love jones gone bad
In most cases thats how us guys feel we want commitment but the fear of being hurt again keeps us on our toes. Look its a cold..cold..cold world out here on this dating scene...
Rosa ive been wit my man for 5 years and he's done some fucked up shit. But i wouldnt dare leave him. for what??? so some other block head boy can do the same shyt?? or even worst some other chick get the best of him and everything i worked for??? plze im sassy but not stupid.
Two comments I totally agree with, I've seen both of these circumstances take place. A person could only go as far as you let them. Read Matt's post. If women never hurt us we would be cool, instead we on our toes. It's like cause & effect.
-I got sleepy reading all those comments at one time (yawning y'all CrAzY).
Updated comment: I made a typo in my previous comment but here is what I meant to say…
Being the author of a Double Standard I must say that I am very appreciative from all the feedback. While writing the article, I was going through some drama with "my guy" (Notice: he is still not my boyfriend but I’m ok with that now). Since then I've learned so much about myself and men and the importance of an open relationship. For the sake of space here, I will try to keep it short as possible.
Men: Its great to keep a guard up to surround that delicate little heart but sometimes that guard will turn away your ideal partner.
Women: Respect is earned, not given and if we want respect from anyone in life we have to respect our mind and our body first. No man wants a hoe...or a stalker, or a needy woman.
To both genders: One way to avoid being hurt is to stop making excuses for the other person. Sometimes we let lust clogged our better judgment. An open relationship should be a place where you and another person decide to spend time getting to know each other on a more mature level. It shouldn’t be an excuse to sleep with other people, or to continue hitting the club every day weekend. Its ok to do you. Just try to have some respect for the other person while you’re doing you!
I have sooo much more to say on this issue but I really don't want to take up a whole page! Maybe we can expect a Double Standard: Part II real soon.
Rosa - It definitely has a lot to do with race, I’ve learned that 1st hand. However with respect to Black women I’ll reframe from digging into that topic……for now.
BrittaniMarie - Again you seem very passionate...
“It’s so funny to me because some guys (NOT ALL*) but they want a women whose going to be loyal to have their back through whatever and everything else that follows. But on the flip side is some men still want to do them (I KNOW how SELFISH RIGHT?) “ – BrittaniMarie, October 22, 2008
“To be honest this really saddens me. So to be loyal means you have to except bullsit, being disrespected, manipulated, go through silly stuff every time you look up, and the #1 CHEATING??????? – BrittaniMarie, October 22, 2008
…Wow that’s crazy because just 8 weeks ago you went on record to say:
“That Refined woman: A woman like myself (confidence, you feel comfortable with, TRUST, stand by her man “NO MATTER WHAT…” –BrittaniMarie, August 21st
No matter what huh?
….Either you’re flat out lying or you’re completely delusional. I know you well so I’m going to assume the ladder in this case. Regardless you’re great person and you make for an even better companion, I’m sure there’s a logical explanation for this blatant indecisiveness. Consider this response rhetorical.
“Call me old fashion but whatever happen to being each other’s help mate, being committed, having happiness, both partners being loyal, and security??????? GOSH” –Brittani Marie
I agree on the old fashion way of doing things. That would make life so much easier right? Just continue to be yourself BrittaniMarie, and don’t let others influence your path to happiness. Remember what we discussed about priorities young lady.
Sacha L - There’s definitely some venting going on. And as far as the epic fail……too late, just look around. LOL
Fresh - Nelly thanks a lot for opening our minds. I’m a big fan of sincerity, and the moment I read your blog it had my undivided attention. Obviously the article had a strong impact on many others as well. The passionate comments are proof that “open relationships” seem to be more controversial than I expected. I guess it all boils down to respect….
”Respect is earned, not given and if we want respect from anyone in life we have to respect our mind and our body” - Fresh
…Well said.
Conclusion - Now that Fresh has recapped her point of view, I feel it’s time to close this topic. I gave everyone ample amount of time to voice their uncensored opinions, hopefully everyone got their point across. In the words of Joseph Anthony Budden “You argue long enough, and that shit becomes laughable.” So tally up everybody’s individual responses in this post, and you draw your own conclusions.
Thank you everyone for your participation.
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